Minimizing Discipline Problems on Eid
Eid-ul-Fitr is a special holiday for us. It’s recommended that we attend the Eid prayer, eat delicious foods and enjoy the day.
On Eid we often involve ourselves in activities that are out of the norm as part of the celebratory activities. We get up before dawn to prepare for the Eid prayer, which may be a change in your child’s sleeping pattern. We indulge in delicious sweets which, which can add to hyperactivity and be perceived by the child as unusual permissiveness. We visit or receive family and friends to enjoy their company which is a change in routine.
These added activities and changes in habit can make your child anxious, excited and even stressed. When your child is experiencing these heightened emotions, she may not be on her best behavior. Simply realize this and be more tolerant of your child’s impulsive or uncharacteristic behaviors. To reassure your child this Eid try the following:
· Look in your child’s eyes when she’s talking to you.
· Take time to listen to what she has to say
· Hold your child’s hand when shopping or visiting—it can be comforting
· Explain to your child the daily schedule or plans.
· Try to take your child where she can run, jump and play, such as the park or other fun venue—activity gets those endorphins (fun chemicals) working in the body.
· Allow a little extra fun-time freedom –It’s Eid!Grandma Jeddah is the author of Discipline without Disrespecting: Discover the Hidden Secrets of How to Effectively Discipline your Muslim Child—And Keep your Peace of Mind While at It. Subscribe to her free newsletter at www.grandmajeddah.com.