Does Your Child need a Spanking? (By Grandma Jeddah)
Children
have feelings and emotions just as adults do.
The old saying, "You can catch more flies with honey than with
vinegar,” plays true when dealing with your children. You may have noticed that some kids do in
fact respond to demands when they are finally spanked. Most all people comply with demands made upon
them when under the pressure of physical punishment. But at what cost is the compliance? At the
cost of your child acting out in school because he knows you want him to get
good grades, but he wants to show you a thing or two. At the cost of his hurting
your feelings in a subtle yet clever way in front of friends and family. Or at the cost of his rebelliousness even if
it results in his being hit. And
ultimately, at the cost of your fractured relationship that prevents your voice
and ideas from being heard and accepted by your child.
Grandma Jeddah is the mother of 11 children and 13 grandchildren. She has taught hundreds of students for over 30 years at an Islamic school in Los Angeles, California.This is an excerpt from her book, Discipline without Disrespecting: Discover the Hidden Secrets of How to Effectively Discipline Your Muslim Child--And Keep Your Peace of Mind while at It. Subscribe to her free newsletter at --http://www.grandmajeddah.com
Grandma Jeddah is the mother of 11 children and 13 grandchildren. She has taught hundreds of students for over 30 years at an Islamic school in Los Angeles, California.This is an excerpt from her book, Discipline without Disrespecting: Discover the Hidden Secrets of How to Effectively Discipline Your Muslim Child--And Keep Your Peace of Mind while at It. Subscribe to her free newsletter at --http://www.grandmajeddah.com
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