Tip 4 How to Become a Patient Parent (By Grandma Jeddah)

Tip 4 How to Become a Patient Parent (By Grandma Jeddah)

Know the value of being patient. Why do people sacrifice to get a good education, obtain a quality job, or marry a good spouse? They see the benefit in attaining these accomplishments. Knowing the value of being patient can help motivate you to strive your hardest to become more patient.  Here are some inspiring points from Quran and hadith that remind us of the rewards of being patient:

And be patient. Surely, Allah is with those who are patient. (Quran8:46)  Who among us is not in need of having Allah on our side.

Abu Yahya Suhaib bin Sinan (May Allah be pleased with him) reported that: The Messenger of Allah (saw) said, "How wonderful is the case of a believer; there is good for him in everything and this applies only to a believer. If prosperity attends him, he expresses gratitude to Allah, and that is good for him; and if adversity befalls him, he endures it patiently, and that is better for him". (Muslim) What a priceless blessing to be counted among the true believers.

Whosoever would be patient, Allah will give him patience, and no one is granted a gift better and more comprehensive than patience". (Bukhari and Muslim)

If you try to be patient and succeed, Allah will give you patience. Masha’Allah, you will be rewarded with the very gift you are searching for.

Allah Almighty says, " . . . those who control their anger and pardon other people. Allah loves the do good-doers," (Quran 3:134)  What a wonderful reward to be loved by Allah, Glory be to Him the Most High!

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Tip 3 How to Become a Patient Parent (By Grandma Jeddah)

Tip 3 How to Become a Patient Parent (By Grandma Jeddah)

Begin making dua asking Allah for his help with your anger management problem. There are some things that come easy to certain people and other things they might have to struggle to achieve. If being patient during trials is something you have a problem with, seek help in the One who has power over all things. Allah loves for His servants to ask Him for help. In fact, He gets angry when you don’t ask. People are just the opposite. They get tired of you asking. So go to the One who can truly grant you success—Your Lord.

And when you ask, take note of what the Prophet (saw) has said.

 The supplication of a slave continues to be granted as long as he does not supplicate for a sinful thing or for something that would cut off the ties of kinship and he does not grow impatient.” It was said: “O Messenger of Allah! What does growing impatient mean?” He (saw) said, “It is one’s saying: `I supplicated again and again but I do not think that my prayer will be answered.’ Then he becomes frustrated (in such circumstances) and gives up supplication altogether.(Muslim)

Never give up asking Allah for his help; it may be that he wants you to grow closer to Him by continually seeking His support.

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Tip 2 How to Become a Patient Parent (By Grandma Jeddah)

Tip 2 How to Become a Patient Parent (By Grandma Jeddah)

2. Realize that change doesn’t occur overnight. Achieving patience will take consistent effort over time. It is likely that you have found that your unruly behavior has been effective at times in getting you what you desire. After all, who wants to deal with a person who sounds like they’ve gone mad—it’s easier to give in and comply.

We are all affected by those around us. If you were raised in a family in which anger was used as a tool to get others to comply, it’s not odd that you have chosen to use this practice as a coping mechanism as well. But don’t lose hope. Insha’Allah, you can achieve the noble characteristic of patience and control your angry feelings. With each step of the way, remember success is built upon failure. Each time you revert back into your unproductive manner of behavior, view it as a experience to learn from rather than an additional failure.


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Tip #4 Managing Your Hyperactive Child (By: Grandma Jeddah)

  Do you have a hyperactive child? 

 Here is a Terrific Tip to help manage your child's behavior

 without hitting or shouting:

Jewel 4 - Speak in a calm, kind voice.

A quietly kept secret is that speaking in a calm voice rather than a loud agitated one can actually help your son settle down better. Two agitated people will not lead to a calmer environment

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