Tip 3 How to Become a Patient Parent (By Grandma Jeddah)

Tip 3 How to Become a Patient Parent (By Grandma Jeddah)

Begin making dua asking Allah for his help with your anger management problem. There are some things that come easy to certain people and other things they might have to struggle to achieve. If being patient during trials is something you have a problem with, seek help in the One who has power over all things. Allah loves for His servants to ask Him for help. In fact, He gets angry when you don’t ask. People are just the opposite. They get tired of you asking. So go to the One who can truly grant you success—Your Lord.

And when you ask, take note of what the Prophet (saw) has said.

 The supplication of a slave continues to be granted as long as he does not supplicate for a sinful thing or for something that would cut off the ties of kinship and he does not grow impatient.” It was said: “O Messenger of Allah! What does growing impatient mean?” He (saw) said, “It is one’s saying: `I supplicated again and again but I do not think that my prayer will be answered.’ Then he becomes frustrated (in such circumstances) and gives up supplication altogether.(Muslim)

Never give up asking Allah for his help; it may be that he wants you to grow closer to Him by continually seeking His support.

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